Sorry to hear about your mom.  In addition, I'll just post this "The key difference is the sheer sense of peace that washed over me when I stood in that apartment."

The limbo ladder on wheels.  It has been a few years, but I seem to remember having trouble with that one as well.

That is brutal.  My wife bought me Destiny on 360 for my birthday the week it first came out because they told her at the store it was the cool new game.  I opened it and put it in that night in the same way you wear that sweater you get but don't really like but it was a gift so that is what you do.  I don't think I have even put 8 hours into playing it.